Bullied Kids: You Are Not Alone in This Fight

South Africa’s recent bullying incident has sparked a national conversation, moving beyond outrage to a powerful, personal level. As the investigation unfolds, countless citizens are bravely sharing their own stories of being bullied. These painful yet powerful narratives often come from individuals who have reached the other side, finding strength and healing.

The founder of Good Things Guy, Brent Lindeque, recently shared his own deeply personal account on social media. The response was overwhelming, with thousands of messages of support and shared experiences pouring in. Due to numerous requests, his story is now being shared in article form to reach a wider audience.

From Personal Pain to Public Healing

Lindeque recounts being severely bullied as a child for being perceived as different. The torment, which included homophobic slurs and social exclusion, culminated in a traumatic physical and sexual assault on a school field when he was just 10 or 11 years old. He was left bleeding and broken, feeling completely alone.

The pivotal moment in his healing came from the immediate and fierce response of his mother. Her unwavering support and advocacy at the school ensured the bullying stopped permanently. Reflecting on the recent viral bullying video, Lindeque realized his tears were not just from relived trauma, but from the profound understanding that he was never truly alone. He had a support system that roared for him.

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A Message to Those Affected by Bullying

This experience fuels a direct message to anyone currently experiencing bullying. Lindeque emphasizes that victims are not alone and have an “army of people who care.” He stresses that bullying is not confined to schools but happens everywhere, even in adulthood.

His words offer hope, asserting that while the experience may change a person, they will be okay. The very traits that bullies target often become sources of extraordinary strength and empathy. The journey from feeling broken to becoming unstoppable is possible.

To the bullies, he extends a hope for introspection, noting that “hurt people, hurt people.” While this does not excuse the behavior, understanding the root of their own pain could be the first step toward healing and choosing kindness. This powerful reflection transforms a personal trigger into a glimmer of hope for everyone affected by bullying.